All about boundaries
What even are boundaries? Let's build them together!
Boundaries are essential to a healthy and fun dynamic that will mean we can build the trust needed to safely explore all your heart's (and other bit's) desires.
These are't about having rules that I will spank you for (unless you want that of course), it's about setting the play parameters so we both know what to expect, and to outline what we want to experience in our time together.
The following is an outline of what these are as a starting point and we can use them to create our own so your boundaries are respected too.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Talk boundaries with me
MAKING CONSENT SEXY
Yes, baby! Oh yes!!
There are few things sexier than hearing someone say "yes, take me, fuck me, I want you." I know it really turns me on when I know someone is really into me. It makes me feel desired, and it gets me really wet. It also means there's no room for mis-interpretation or discomfort. Consent is the foundation of an amazingly sexy experience.
Learning our boundaries is not often a fun topic, especially for eager new beginners. Working with new-kink-commers, I've been able to support and assist with establishing boundaries, hard limits and other considerations such as safety, aftercare etc.
The Tea Consent video is a classic because it shows the concept of continual enthusiastic consent really well. I use the principles of consent outlined in this video throughout all my play sessions and encourage you to watch it prior to any new sexy engagement.
RESOURCES FOR BEGINNERS
Explore the tools
Below you'll find some of my favourite tools and resources for learning about consent, boundaries and other ways you can deepen and enrich your intimate experiences. These tools can help you learn about your and your partner's sexual and emotional boundaries to level up your intimacy and fantasies.
