Serious Stuff | Ashley Stafford | Safe Sexual Encounters

All the serious stuff

Please see terms, conditions, etiquette, health & safety etc below.

HEALTH & SAFETY

Duty of care

I do not offer unprotected/natural sex. This keeps me healthy and protects you as well. I get regular STI checks in line with industry standards so you know we're both going to be safe when we play. I practice with open communication so we know where each other's boundaries are and can ensure a fun experience for everyone involved. I provide all condoms, dental dams, lube and other equipment needed for our sexy times. If you are showing symptoms or have broken skin your service may be cancelled or altered to ensure safe play.

For people with a physical disability who require additional support I can make my in-call location accessible with a ramp but you must provide any additional equipment and communicate with me the support you might need to facilitate our time together.

You are liable for your own health and are responsible for making sure our time together does not have adverse affects. I will do everything in my power to make it a positive experience.

PRIVACY & SECURITY

How I handle your data

When booking a session ordering or registering on my site, as appropriate, you will be asked to enter your name, email and phone number. This information will be used to confirm your booking and communicate with you regarding your booking. It may also be used to send you marketing information and special offers. I will not sell your details or provide them to external parties. This does not include website hosting partners and other parties who assist me in operating my website, conducting my business, or servicing you, so long as those parties agree to keep this information confidential. The only people who will have access to your information are myself, my security team and you. My security team will access your information to keep me safe if required.

I do not collect or store credit card or banking information at any time.

I may use the information collected from you when you register make a booking, sign up for our newsletter, surf the website, or use certain other site features in the following ways:

To personalise your user experience and to allow me to deliver the type of content and product offerings in which you are most interested.
To improve my website in order to better serve you.
To allow me to better service you in responding to your customer service requests.
To quickly process your transactions.

Security

My website is scanned on a regular basis by my hosting platform for security holes and known vulnerabilities in order to make your visit to our site as safe as possible. Your personal information is contained behind secured networks and is only accessible by a limited number of persons who have special access rights to such systems, and are required to keep the information confidential.

My site does collect cookies. Cookies are small files that a site or its service provider transfers to your computer’s hard drive through your web browser (if you allow) that enables the site’s or service provider’s systems to recognise your browser and capture and remember certain information. They are also used to help me understand your preferences based on previous or current site activity, which enables me to provide you with improved services. I also use cookies to compile aggregate data about site traffic and site interaction so that I can offer better site experiences and tools in the future.

Third party links

Occasionally, I may include or offer third-party products or services on my website. These third-party sites have separate and independent privacy policies. I therefore have no responsibility or liability for the content and activities of these linked sites. Nonetheless, I seek to protect the integrity of my site and welcome any feedback about these sites.

PAYMENT METHODS

Let's talk business

I can not process payments through my website.

Booking deposits must be made prior to your session and can be paid over the phone or directly into my bank account using bank transfer, instant cash transfers using Commonwealth Bank ATMs, or Beemit.

The remainder of the payments for each session must be paid at the beginning of our time together in either cash or any of the above methods.

When you request a booking I will contact you to arrange the deposit. Financial information of any variety will not be disclosed until that point.

I do not store your payment information on my servers at all, any digital payment information is managed by the financial institution that you use to make your payment.

FAQs

Ask me anthing

Scat Play

It is a hard limit of mine and I will not engage or entertain the idea of this play.
I don't have any limits or boundaries....

You absolutely do and I’m happy to help explore what those are. Think about the things you wouldn’t like. This could be pain, cold touch, humiliation play etc.
What's your favourite kink?

Personally, I thoroughly enjoy all kink play within my limits; seeing and practicing what makes people tick is hot. Watching how your mind and body responds to our environment, touch and sounds fascinates me. If I had to choose one kink to do daily, it would be impact play. I enjoy giving impact and pain play because it's so varied and very diverse in options of play and where on the body. It demands attention and I can engage my sadistic tendencies with willing and consenting participants.
Do you see couples?

Yes, I see all types of couples.
Will you laugh at me?

Absolutely not; unless that is specifically apart of your kink request and humiliation desire. I am judgement free and accepting, I aim to create a safe space for kinks and fantasies to be explored safely and consensually.
Can I cum more than once?

Yes. Absolutely. I don't like to limit our time together by how many orgasms either one of us has.
Kink Companion Service Rates

30 minutes - this is a short time to play if this is a first time scenario, although can be suitable for some beginner and introduction ideas of play - think light bondage, trial of anal play, blindfolding, sensory deprivation etc. Or alternatively, an experienced player wanting to do maintenance scratch of an itch. $350 One hour - Ideal amount of time for a first session. It allows time to warm up and get play into swing. For more intense or multifaceted play, more time may be required. $600 90 minutes - $850 2 hours - Perfect if you’d like the full experience of warm up and wind down. We can really take our time with this experience. The last 20-30 minutes of the time can be spent nurturing whether that be via cuddling, sex or having a debrief. Either way, I’ll help you come back down to earth. $1050 I do typically cap kink sessions at 2 hours for a first session with me and/or beginners. Additional hours can be discussed and negotiated prior to booking if you've got a particular idea of play, or a social event in mind that will go beyond two hours. This is subject to negotiations prior to booking acceptance. Outcalls Outcalls do incur a minimum $50 travel fee for up to half an hour of travel (varies depending on travel distance). The travel fee is to be paid prior to the booking as this acts as your deposit. Yes, I’ve been sent to multiple fake outcalls before and whilst I don’t think many people do this, a deposit does help me to feel secure in weeding out fake or fantasy bookings.
GFE - Girlfriend Experience

The Quickie - a fast paced 15 minute rendezvous. Incalls only. $200 A taste of pleasure - 30 minutes of hot and steamy play. $300 Feel the passion - An hour of hands-on intimacy and passion. $500 The interlude - 90 minutes $700 Rodeo - Two full hour of indulgence. $850 Dinner & desert - Two hours for wining and dining, then two hours for play. Or netflix and chill with some uber eats. $1200 A night to remember - Me + You. Let your imagination run wild with what we could get up to. This service is only to a 4 or 5 star hotel. Minimum 24 hour notice required with a 50% deposit paid. Accommodation and food is all inclusive in this package. 6 Hours $2200 Overnight (12 hours) $3200 Outcalls Outcalls do incur a minimum $50 travel fee for up to half an hour of travel (varies depending on travel distance). The travel fee is to be paid prior to the booking as this acts as your deposit. Yes, I’ve been sent to multiple fake outcalls before and whilst I don’t think many people do this, a deposit does help me to feel secure in weeding out fake or fantasy bookings.
How do I make a booking?

It can be daunting to make the initial contact with a provider. Please remember first impressions can count for a lot in establishing a positive connection. Consider these points below when enquiring or requesting a booking. Booking requests can be done via the book now tab at the top of the screen. Don’t forget to read through my Q&A’s beforehand to see if your question has already been answered too. 1. Introduce yourself - name, location and where you found me. 2. the type of service you’d like, incall or outcall + a date/time I am available to respond to enquiries via text or email only. Phone calls can be pre-arranged where needed. I have a busy schedule and can't always answer calls. 0413 664 372 ashleyleestafford@gmail.com
Do you provide virtual services?

Yes. I can arrange video calls and sexting sessions. These are more custom priced and arranged on request. It's best to email or text me for this enquiry.
Why do you require a deposit?

Outcalls do incur a minimum $50 travel fee for up to half an hour of travel (varies depending on travel distance). The travel fee is to be paid prior to the booking as this acts as your deposit. I require deposits for all new clients or returning clients that I have not seen for more than 12 months. The deposit is $50 and is required to secure our session. Paying deposits helps us to build trust and shows me that you are a genuine client who values my time and show me a level of commitment on your behalf. Unfortunately, I’ve been sent to multiple fake outcalls before and whilst I don’t think many people do this, a deposit does help me to feel secure in weeding out fake or fantasy bookings.
Does it cost more for couples?

I charge an extra $150 for each extra person, per hour, included in a booking on top of the base rates.
Does it cost more if you're trans?

No. I charge per person regardless of who you are, how you identify or what your gender is.
What hours are you available?

My typical work hours 10am-10/11pm. Monday to Sunday. I am happy to work outside of these hours with an additional $100 out of hours fee to be paid as a deposit upon booking request.
Car/public meet requests

I only accept outcall booking to hotels or private residences. No car bookings or public sexual encounters will be accepted.
Pet Names

No! Save the titles for the play. Any title you give me is not appropriate in the communication and negotiation stages of play. This is a safe space to effectively discuss and establish boundaries, limits and expectations. Mistress excites me during our in-person play but startles me outside of that as it can inhibit a power in-balance which needs to be left for the play. On this note, do not call me babe, baby or any other innuendo cute name. It is not okay nor is it appropriate. Call me Ashley or Ash.
Can I bring you a gift?

Yes, absolutely. Gifts/tips are not expected; there is never any pressure to bring anything other than yourself, the service fee and a positive attitude. I do have a current wish-list going on my website if you’d really like to indulge me. I appreciate and take pleasure in all gifts, whether that be a $10 tip (my morning coffee / treat) or something more quirky or specific to our connection we've established.
Do you work with other workers?

Yes! Absolutely, I have a list of workers I have worked with or would love to work with. I’m happy to come along and join you and another worker too if you have your mind set on a particular Duo; I ask that you let us know who each other are so we can collaborate and look each other up before the booking.
Do you offer BBBJ or natural sex?

I do not offer unprotected or natural sex. Asking this during the booking or trying to tamper with the condom will be your booking terminated without refund. I do include BBBJ in my services prior to a visual health check.
Will I come to you?

Yes! I have two options, either we can do a standard outcall (where I visit you at your hotel/home in Newcastle and Hunter Valley area) or you can fly/drive me anywhere in the world.
Where do you tour regularly?

I regularly tour Sydney, Tamworth and Melbourne.
Do I need to pay a deposit and why?

Deposits are required for all outcalls, on-tour and bookings over 4 hours long. Deposits are 20% of the booking fee for bookings over 4 hours and tour booking. Deposits help with costs of accommodation, tour expenses such as travel, hotels and it provides me with a structure and schedule for my tour. Paying deposits helps us to build trust and shows me that you are a genuine client who values my time and a level of commitment. In turn, I can now begin to feel excitement and anticipation for our time together.