

What is kink?
For me kink is vast and varied. Nothing about kink falls into a one size fits all framework, there is no single answer for the question...
Get kinky with me, rawr ...
I've been involved in kink for a few years now and pride myself on consistently growing and evolving in my skills and abilities. I value transparency, communication and enthusiastic consent. I don't claim to know all, nor will I ever. My goal in my kinky life is to have authentic experiences with like minded individuals with an emphasis on safety & consent vs expectations / goals.
As I've grown into my kinky-self over the years, I've found that kink is a journey, not a singular experience. Those singular experiences are fun and often hold a lot of sentimental value; but that are hopefully a part of a larger puzzle to help us find who we are and what we want to be.
I have always been kinky-minded but I didn't realise there was a whole kink community out there and such a wide range of kink to explore. I always felt like I wanted more. When I found the kink community I felt like I found my people and dived straight in. Kink in all its glory is now very much a part of my life and my identity. I'm very connected to people in my community who have a wealth of knowledge and I have connected into the resources I need to constantly learn. I also volunteer in the kink community and am proud of being an active part of the community to help develop a safe environment for all people to explore and learn and grow in their sexuality.
My kinky companion was born after I realised how much I valued being a part of someone else's experiences; whether that be a first, or seasoned experience/s. Learning our boundaries is not often a fun topic, especially for eager new beginners. Working with new-kink-commers, I've been able to support and assist with establishing boundaries, hard limits and other considerations such as safety, aftercare etc.
The following list can be considered a tasting menu, a sample of options and a little guideline of the kinds of things I'm into and like doing with you. I identify as a switch but predominantly play best in topping/domme positions. It takes me a lot of time and trust building to feel safe enough to consider allowing my submissive tendencies out with other individuals.
Affectionate cuddling
Affectionate kissing
Anal play - On you
BDSM
BBBJ
Caning
CBJ
COB
Costumes
Costumes and role play
Couples
Cuddling and Touching
Dinner companion
Dirty Talk
Doggy style
Fetish
Fisting
Gagging
GFE
Intimidation on you
Kissing
Light spanking
Maid
Masturbation
MILF
Multiple positions
Nipple Manipulation
Overnight stays
Passionate Kissing
Prostate massage
PSE
Rimming - On me
Role playing
Slave / Sub play
School girl
Secretary
Sex toys
Sexy lingerie
Social escort
Spanish
Spanking - On you
Squirting
Strap on - on you
Teasing
Toys
Wax Play
Wrestling
Please note; I do not offer natural/unprotected sex.